I Cuddle with Strangers

How it works, and would you do it?

Kelly Neuer

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I am a platonic cuddler.

What does that mean, you ask?

It means I screen, then bring strangers into my home and we cuddle. For about an hour or so. We cuddle on the couch or on my bed. I’ve been doing this for about eight months.

What do I get out of it, you ask?

Quality time and physical touch without assumption and ulterior motivations. It’s loveless, it’s passionless and utterly fulfilling.

I think I’ve found a hidden gem. I’ve found something I never knew I was missing.

You still with me?

Single or not, if this sounds intriguing to you, I’m here to shed a little light on the cuddle process in my experience, so far. If platonic, physical touch is what you crave, then good for you. You deserve to have touch and connection in your life. I consider it a basic human need.

How it begins

As with all things today, it starts with an app. There are a few cuddle apps out there, and you’ll want to explore a bit to find the right one for you. I landed on cuddlecomfort.com.

Create a profile

Say hi and introduce yourself. List some interests and what kind of cuddle…

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Kelly Neuer

I believe the world runs on love. Plus a sprinkle of sass. I help others make joy a reality in their own lives. Say hi! https://hearherspeak130.blogspot.com/